Don’t Be Someone You’re Not
The first step to starting a long-term hobby is picking something you actually enjoy. You will not magically take on the qualities of a new person simply because you started knitting. If you hate cooking, don’t try take on cooking as a hobby. Can people change? Absolutely, but usually not through forcing themselves to paint.
Rather, go for something you genuinely find fun. If you found building a puzzle relaxing in the past, that may be your speed. If you know that being outdoors revives you, then try jogging or outdoor yoga. It’s all about being true to yourself.
Find an Accountability Partner
One of the top reasons that people give up hobbies prematurely, even if they’re enjoying it, is that they just can’t hold themselves accountable. Enter, accountability partners or even groups. Chances are there is someone else you know trying to keep up a new hobby, and even if it’s not the same as yours, you can check in with each other once a week to make sure you’re both dedicating time to your hobbies.
For hobbies like cooking, reading, or writing, there are plenty of groups that meet weekly where you can discuss your progress and how you’re finding the experience. It’s a great way to get tips and meet like-minded people.
Aim Low
It’s important to be realistic in your approach to starting a hobby. Don’t expect that you’ll be able to knit a full sweater on the first try if you’ve never held knitting needles before. Start with small milestones, and be honest about your beginner status.
Consistency IS key, but also make sure to start out small and build your way up. There’s no outside pressure when it comes to hobbies, it’s purely about giving yourself a creative release and using your spare time to learn or refine a skill.
You Can Do It!
Be kind and patient with yourself. Ultimately, hobbies can be lifesavers for some. They offer a break in your routine and the ongoing madness of life. No one likes to start from scratch, but just remember, that’s exactly how every pro once was!